Why It’s Important to Read Aloud with Your Kids—and How to Make It Count

 

 

One of the most meaningful things parents can do for their children, beyond keeping them safe and healthy, is to read with them. Reading aloud isn’t just for babies and toddlers—it’s something that should continue even after kids can read independently. Studies consistently show that reading with young children helps them develop language skills, interact socially, and bond with caregivers. For older kids, shared reading time fosters emotional connection, deepens comprehension, and encourages empathy.

Liza Baker, the executive editorial director at Scholastic, highlights the magic of reading from the very beginning. “It’s so important to start reading from Day One,” she says. “The sound of your voice, the lyrical quality of the younger books—it’s poetic. Even at eight weeks old, babies momentarily focus, drawn in by the rhythm of the words.”

But reading aloud isn’t just for infants. As children grow, books should be an integral part of their environment. And when kids begin reading on their own, parents shouldn’t step away from read-aloud moments. “Even older kids love nothing more than that time with their parents,” Baker says. “Again and again, kids tell us their most special memories involve reading together.”

Read Aloud Early—and Keep It Going

The good news is that many parents are already embracing early reading habits. According to Scholastic’s latest Kids & Family Reading Report, over three-quarters of parents with children under five begin reading aloud before their child’s first birthday. Even more encouraging, the number of parents who start reading before their baby turns three months old has risen from 30% in 2014 to 40% in 2016. Parents of preschoolers are also reading more frequently—62% of parents with 3- to 5-year-olds now read aloud five to seven days a week, compared to 55% in 2014.

But there’s a concerning trend: many parents stop reading aloud once their child turns five. This shift can lead to missed opportunities for bonding and literacy development.

To keep the habit going, make reading an engaging experience. Have fun with it—use different voices, add dramatic flair, and invite your child to participate. If your little one interrupts with questions, embrace it. Asking questions is part of how children process stories and develop comprehension skills. In fact, interactive books, such as those in the StoryPlay series, provide built-in prompts to encourage discussion and keep kids engaged.

Help Kids Find Books They Love

Even kids who love stories sometimes struggle to find books they enjoy. While only 29% of parents think their child has trouble selecting books, 41% of kids say they struggle to find books they like—a number that jumps to 57% among infrequent readers.

Parents can play a crucial role in guiding their children toward engaging books. Keep an open conversation about what excites your child—whether it’s adventure, humor, or fantasy—and help them explore new genres. It’s also important to include books with diverse characters and storylines. While most kids and parents prioritize a “good story,” about 10% of kids aged 12 to 17 specifically seek books that reflect different cultures and backgrounds.

When looking for recommendations, don’t forget to tap into your child’s support system. Teachers, librarians, and even peers can offer great book suggestions. Younger kids often discover books through schoolbook fairs or reading clubs, while teenagers may find new titles through social media.

Let Kids Take the Lead in Choosing Books

One of the most effective ways to encourage reading is to let kids choose their own books. A staggering 89% of children aged 6 to 17 say their favorite books are the ones they pick themselves. Even among younger kids, book choice matters—67% of parents with children under five say their kids select their read-aloud books, and that number rises to 81% for children ages 3 to 5.

Popular choices among parents include Harry Potter, Dr. Seuss, Diary of a Wimpy Kid, The Magic Tree House, and The Chronicles of Narnia. Book series, in particular, help kids stay engaged with familiar characters and ongoing adventures.

To foster a love of reading, make books as accessible as possible. Keep bookshelves within reach, store books in various rooms, and always have a book handy for car rides, waiting rooms, and downtime. Instead of handing your child a screen, offer them a book they enjoy. If they need guidance, narrow down a few options and let them choose. Their preferences will evolve over time, so be flexible and supportive as they explore new interests.

The Lasting Impact of Reading Together

Reading aloud isn’t just about literacy—it’s about connection. When parents read with their children, they create lasting memories, strengthen emotional bonds, and help their kids develop lifelong skills. Whether your child is an eager bookworm or a reluctant reader, shared reading time offers a unique opportunity to learn, imagine, and grow together.

By making reading a daily habit, providing access to diverse books, and allowing kids to take the lead in choosing stories, parents can nurture a love of reading that lasts a lifetime. So, grab a book, settle in, and enjoy the magic of reading together.

 

 

Coach Benjamin Mizrahi. Educator. Learning Specialist. Family Coach. Father. Husband. 

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