How To Show Faith in Your Children

 

 

One of the greatest gifts we can give our children isn’t something we buy — it’s our faith in them. When we believe in their ability to handle challenges, make decisions, and learn from mistakes, we help them build confidence that lasts a lifetime.

Children grow through experience. If we rush to fix every problem, we take away the very lessons that teach resilience and problem-solving. Our role is to support — with validation, understanding, and presence — but not to rescue every time things get tough.

 

Take Time for Training

Sometimes we expect kids to do things they’ve never really been taught. “Clean your room” can sound simple to us, but overwhelming to them. Instead of just instructing, guide them. Show them what “clean” looks like, work alongside them, and teach the steps. This not only builds skill — it builds connection.

 

Ask Curiosity Questions

Instead of telling, start asking. Questions like:
🟢 “Where do your dirty clothes go?”
🟢 “What needs to be done before we vacuum?”
🟢 “What can help you finish your homework on time?”

When we ask instead of direct, we shift responsibility to our child — and send the message that we trust them to figure things out.

 

Practice Patience

This is the hardest part. It’s always faster to step in and fix things. But every time we do, we send the message, “You can’t handle this.” Instead, take a breath. Let them try. Let them feel a bit of frustration and figure out solutions.

Later, when the moment passes, explore it together:
“What happened?” “What did you learn?” “What can you try next time?”
Those questions teach reflection — not shame.

 

Have Faith in Who They’re Becoming

Your child today isn’t who they’ll always be. The messy room, the forgotten homework, the spills — they’re all part of the process. Someday, they’ll remind their kids to clean up or take responsibility.

Model the behavior you want to see. Guide with patience. Believe in their growth. Because when we show faith in our children, we teach them to have faith in themselves.

 

 

— Coach Benjamin Mizrahi
Educator | Learning Specialist | Family Coach | Father | Husband

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