How to Support Healthy Risk-Taking

 

 

Most parents want to keep their children safe, which often means stepping in the moment a child’s plan seems “too risky.” But risk-taking is an important part of learning and growth. A better approach is to allow kids to test their abilities while providing guidance and supervision.

Instead of immediately stopping your child’s “crazy plans,” pause and observe. If you see determination on their face—even if mixed with a little fear—let them try. You can stay nearby if that makes you more comfortable, but resist the urge to intervene too quickly.

If what they’re attempting could become unsafe, speak up. Share your concern calmly, then let your child problem-solve. Some children will adjust right away; others might push back. It’s okay to step in when absolutely necessary—but giving them space to figure it out first helps build independence.

Encourage healthy risk-taking by:

• Letting kids try challenging things under adult supervision.
• Modeling safe behaviors and talking about safety rules.
• Allowing them to gradually take on more responsibility.

When children succeed after taking a risk, they feel genuine pride and accomplishment. Even small victories help them grow resilience, confidence, and determination—skills that will serve them for life.

Above all, celebrate your child’s courage and ambition. Their willingness to take on challenges today will shape their ability to thrive in the years ahead.

 

 

Coach Benjamin Mizrahi. Educator. Learning Specialist. Family Coach. Father. Husband.

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