Improving Kids Social Skills

 

 

Feeling alone and disconnected from peers can be heartbreaking for a child—and for parents, it’s equally painful to watch. It’s natural to feel frustrated and unsure how to help your child build the friendships they long for.

Developing social skills and learning to interact with the world is not just helpful—it’s a critical part of a child’s happiness and success, even more so than academic performance.

Children with ADHD often struggle to stay tuned in to their environments, which can cause them to misread social cues. This may lead to overreacting to situations or underreacting when others expect a response. Missing these signals can make them appear insensitive, leading to misunderstandings and tension with peers.

 

Ways to Help Your Child Build Social Skills

• Talk openly about the importance of social skills and making friends.
• Set a social goal together that feels achievable and positive.
• Arrange supervised, short playdates to give them opportunities to practice new skills.
• Choose simple, engaging activities that make interaction easier.
• Record and review your child’s social interactions at home to build self-awareness.
• Discuss what others might be feeling, using facial expressions and body language as cues.

 

As a parent, you’re already teaching social skills through your own example and by creating safe situations for practice. With patience, guidance, and encouragement, children can learn to navigate social situations successfully and build the connections they truly need.

 

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Coach Benjamin Mizrahi
Educator • Learning Specialist • Family Coach • Father • Husband

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